Stop bad attitudes from ruining your wedding day
Your wedding day is everything to the people involved. It means the story of two people as one is about to have an opening chapter. Families from different places coming together to celebrate the joining of two individuals falling in love and taking the next step. But there can be those who for one reason or another are not totally on board with that and may try their hardest to get in the way and cause a ripple. Now these ripples barely cause an issue however they can have lasting implications on the wedding day, particularly if they commence during the planning process. You need to nip that in the bud early in order to enjoy your wedding day without these “bad seeds”
It can start fairly early. You just got engaged and are quick to post an image with that awesome ring on your finger. And who can blame you, it’s exciting. But you get that text from your cousin (you know which one) claiming her ring is bigger. Although we all know size does not matter, to her it obviously does. Let that go because she could just be bitter and or in a bad mood, but if it continues later it will only increase. You may need to have a sit down with this person and calmly let her know that although it may not be what she finds to be great it is what you love. This could be venue, photographer, florist and anything and everything you have selected. Trust me when we say this can and eventually will ruin your wedding day. The dark cloud will linger and you need to brighten up that sky and bring back the white puffy happy clouds.
This bad attitude can come from anywhere and anyone and anytime. You need to do your research and make solid choices on whom you decide to hire. You will then have confidence that you made the best choices for you and not your 2nd cousin twice removed who feels that her photographer is great for you because they are great for everyone. Truth is not everyone fits together like Lego pieces, we are all different and very often choose at different things. If you find that you have a persistent friend, relative or co-worker that is just a little too much of a Debbie Downer you have two choices. Let it go just like Elsa from Frozen. These people may be dealing with other things that make them negative towards weddings in general or they just don’t like you. Or your second choice…cut them off. Don’t invite them or revoke the invite, if you can still do so.
Life is too short to continuously carry an umbrella around for all of those rainy days. Your wedding day will be awesome, trust me. You made all of the right decisions that worked for you. All of the other drama can be left alone with those who are carrying their bad attitudes. This entire post means nothing to you if you have already stopped paying attention to the “noise”. There is nothing like controlling only what you can control and let the other things figure themselves out.
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